"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kiss when have a cold?

Wannabe_DonJuan

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It's winter time, and like every year, I am just starting to get a cold (common cold virus).

If you have a girlfriend, do you refrain from kissing her until the cold goes away? Is this common? In fact, do you refrain from sex completely? I feel 95% fine, but I don't want to pass the cold on to her?

What have you guys done in the past? And for a girl with a cold, do you care if you catch it?

Wondering how to approach this one.....?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Climax

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what i would do..

If i have a cold, or she has a cold, i dont do anything sexual with her... actually, we normally dont really go near eachother when 1 of us have a sickness that is catchy.... but thats just me;)
 

SageOFAllenAge

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My girl exclaims "Oh no I have a cold, we wont be able to kiss", I just grab her & kiss her.
 

Vincent

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Well If your around her much to begin with you'll probably catch it as well. So either ignore her till she's better or just say screw it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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