"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kiss when have a cold?

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It's winter time, and like every year, I am just starting to get a cold (common cold virus).

If you have a girlfriend, do you refrain from kissing her until the cold goes away? Is this common? In fact, do you refrain from sex completely? I feel 95% fine, but I don't want to pass the cold on to her?

What have you guys done in the past? And for a girl with a cold, do you care if you catch it?

Wondering how to approach this one.....?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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what i would do..

If i have a cold, or she has a cold, i dont do anything sexual with her... actually, we normally dont really go near eachother when 1 of us have a sickness that is catchy.... but thats just me;)
 
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My girl exclaims "Oh no I have a cold, we wont be able to kiss", I just grab her & kiss her.
 
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Well If your around her much to begin with you'll probably catch it as well. So either ignore her till she's better or just say screw it.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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