"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kiss Test

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The "Kiss Test" is a test to see if a woman is interested in you on more than a "Just Friend" level.

A woman that sees you as just a friend will usually turn her head away from you as you try to kiss her on the mouth.

A woman that sees you as more than just a friend will want you to kiss her on the mouth.

Just because a woman goes out with you doesn't mean she sees you as a potential lover. By applying the Kiss Test, a woman's true level of interest will be known.

Use this test within the first couple of dates to know exactly where you stand. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good post :)

Just to add, if you can sucessfully run your fingers through her hair (using whatever excuse you can cook up), then you know it's time to use, 'The Kiss Test'.
 

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I was wondering what you meant, by more than just on a friend level? No offense to your age or anything, but I interpreted, because of your age that you are testing the girl for marrage. So are you meaning on a higher level for marrage or sex?
 

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Riedog69,

This was intended for long term relationship material, but could also be used for sex.

If a woman isn't willing to give you a kiss on the mouth, she sure as hell won't be letting you screw her. ;)
 

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Of course a Kiss is Important but the fact that a Girl kissed doesent mean she likes you.Girl also kiss guys just for fun of course she find you physically atractive but that s all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm thinking the kiss test should be applied toward the end of the date so if it backfires, the rest of the time won't be awkward
 

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Originally posted by Surfboard
Riedog69,
If a woman isn't willing to give you a kiss on the mouth, she sure as hell won't be letting you screw her. ;)
You'd be suprised.
 
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