"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kiss Test

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The "Kiss Test" is a test to see if a woman is interested in you on more than a "Just Friend" level.

A woman that sees you as just a friend will usually turn her head away from you as you try to kiss her on the mouth.

A woman that sees you as more than just a friend will want you to kiss her on the mouth.

Just because a woman goes out with you doesn't mean she sees you as a potential lover. By applying the Kiss Test, a woman's true level of interest will be known.

Use this test within the first couple of dates to know exactly where you stand. ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good post :)

Just to add, if you can sucessfully run your fingers through her hair (using whatever excuse you can cook up), then you know it's time to use, 'The Kiss Test'.
 

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I was wondering what you meant, by more than just on a friend level? No offense to your age or anything, but I interpreted, because of your age that you are testing the girl for marrage. So are you meaning on a higher level for marrage or sex?
 

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Riedog69,

This was intended for long term relationship material, but could also be used for sex.

If a woman isn't willing to give you a kiss on the mouth, she sure as hell won't be letting you screw her. ;)
 

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Of course a Kiss is Important but the fact that a Girl kissed doesent mean she likes you.Girl also kiss guys just for fun of course she find you physically atractive but that s all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm thinking the kiss test should be applied toward the end of the date so if it backfires, the rest of the time won't be awkward
 

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Originally posted by Surfboard
Riedog69,
If a woman isn't willing to give you a kiss on the mouth, she sure as hell won't be letting you screw her. ;)
You'd be suprised.
 
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