Kiss Closing Easier than Number Closing

[AbsolutBeirut]

Based on the past two days, that was the case with me. Girls I pulled happened to be on the dancefloor and I grinded with them so hot-n-heavy that we eventually started kissing. Unfortunately that puts me in a fool's mate situation as no conversation trickled between us and thus no comfort. At some point she joins back with her friends or excuses herself away. We all know that here she is ditching me. It forces me to have to follow her in order to continue where I left off. Usually that comes accross as AFC and never works out as I want it. What I want is to advance by getting a lay or a Day 2. What is keeping me from getting there? what I am doing wrong?

 

[J-Bone]

did you try to isolate her somewhere shortly after talking for some rapport?

 

[AbsolutBeirut]

problem is that we never got to talking at all. I was so enjoying the dancing with her that I was afraid that if I suggested we go outside to talk, shed say No and I would end up with nothing.

 

[kdnash82]

I understand your pain. There have been times where I have kissed closed with no number to follow. No conversation at all. Then she'll disappear and I won't ever see her again.

Usually what I alwasy try to remember to do is at some point while we're dancing or kissing, I'll pull away and hand her my cell. They'll either put their number in there right away, or give me some crap about how they don't give out their number. If the latter, I simply shrug and walk away.

 

[jamescr73]

probably happened because they were drunk, and didnt give you their number because their boyfriend would be pissed off. Chalk it up as some free action, and move on to the next.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Rejection could be a lot worse. Lol.

 

[Obsidian]

Hors can be tricky beasts to master. What you have to do is dance with her for about 4 songs, kiss her on the neck and also on the lips (duration: maybe ten minutes), and then tell her you should head back to your place for drinks. If you have danced with her and kinoed her correctly, then by this point she will quite possibly be putty in your hands.

 

[frisco]

You were too into the moment, Grinding danceing was the only thing on your mind, At this point you could just take her hand and say "i want to talk to you for a sec..... before i leave " Take her to a quiet area and start off with comfort, Such As asking her somthing like "So what did you want to be when you were seven", then go from there.