"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is it emphasized to kiss close at a particular number of dates? I usually just go for the kiss whenever I feel like I want to or when I feel like its the right situation. I mean if anyone reads pook or AD, they emphasize that it should always be up to you. I am seeing 2 girls right now and when I finally kiss closed them it was our 4th or 5th date and I am still seeing them with a F-close 2 weeks after I kiss close.

So, did I just get lucky with these 2 girls or should I follow the rule where it says to kiss close based on the number of dates? kind of confused

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that all up to you. if you want to wait 5 dates before you kiss and wait even longer before you f**k them then do so.
 
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playboy_supreme said:
that all up to you. if you want to wait 5 dates before you kiss and wait even longer before you f**k them then do so.
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Its not really me waiting conciously for the x number of dates. if I feel like kissing her the firast date, then I do it, but if takes me till the 5th date to feel like kissing her then I do not make a big deal ot of it. Its funny because I have seen friends get really tense and nervous when they have this idea that its the 3rd date I MUST kiss her or else I lose her. I figure if a girl is willing to stop seeing you because you did not kiss, then she was not good enough for you.

I think it is a way of keeping your frame and not going into hers. I only do things when I WANT to do them. And I think this is the main point of POOK and AD.
 
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Read her body language, if you can buy a book or read the bible, you know when she is ready, as soon as you see it move in.

Ricard
 
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