"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why is it emphasized to kiss close at a particular number of dates? I usually just go for the kiss whenever I feel like I want to or when I feel like its the right situation. I mean if anyone reads pook or AD, they emphasize that it should always be up to you. I am seeing 2 girls right now and when I finally kiss closed them it was our 4th or 5th date and I am still seeing them with a F-close 2 weeks after I kiss close.

So, did I just get lucky with these 2 girls or should I follow the rule where it says to kiss close based on the number of dates? kind of confused

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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that all up to you. if you want to wait 5 dates before you kiss and wait even longer before you f**k them then do so.
 
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playboy_supreme said:
that all up to you. if you want to wait 5 dates before you kiss and wait even longer before you f**k them then do so.
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Its not really me waiting conciously for the x number of dates. if I feel like kissing her the firast date, then I do it, but if takes me till the 5th date to feel like kissing her then I do not make a big deal ot of it. Its funny because I have seen friends get really tense and nervous when they have this idea that its the 3rd date I MUST kiss her or else I lose her. I figure if a girl is willing to stop seeing you because you did not kiss, then she was not good enough for you.

I think it is a way of keeping your frame and not going into hers. I only do things when I WANT to do them. And I think this is the main point of POOK and AD.
 
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Read her body language, if you can buy a book or read the bible, you know when she is ready, as soon as you see it move in.

Ricard
 
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