"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kiss and then giggle???

redzone2t

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I was wondering......after you kiss a girl and she sorta giggles and smiles is that a good sign..or..am i doing something wrong?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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redzone2t

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i kiss her on the lips...when i kiss her passionately she seems like she is in a trance (she barely moves), basically she makes me do all the work..but when we gave each other a kiss goodbye (on lips) she giggled and smiled..lol...i don't know what to think..
 

potato

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Giggling is a good thing, unless if she is laughing at you. With some women, giggling is part of her flirting behavior. Typically, if she’s giggling, she’s liking what ever it is that you are doing.
 

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Smiles are bad...duh.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thissean

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depends on what type of smile. If it looked very natural then good. If it looked like her mouth was just smiling and not her face, then bad, shes faking it. If she has a tight lipped smile, then it can mean many things, shes hiding something and most likely wont tell you unless you can call it right on the spot.

anyways, my 2 cents
 
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