"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kiss and then giggle???

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redzone2t

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I was wondering......after you kiss a girl and she sorta giggles and smiles is that a good sign..or..am i doing something wrong?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i kiss her on the lips...when i kiss her passionately she seems like she is in a trance (she barely moves), basically she makes me do all the work..but when we gave each other a kiss goodbye (on lips) she giggled and smiled..lol...i don't know what to think..
 
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Giggling is a good thing, unless if she is laughing at you. With some women, giggling is part of her flirting behavior. Typically, if she’s giggling, she’s liking what ever it is that you are doing.
 
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Smiles are bad...duh.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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depends on what type of smile. If it looked very natural then good. If it looked like her mouth was just smiling and not her face, then bad, shes faking it. If she has a tight lipped smile, then it can mean many things, shes hiding something and most likely wont tell you unless you can call it right on the spot.

anyways, my 2 cents
 
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