"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kiss and then giggle???

redzone2t

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I was wondering......after you kiss a girl and she sorta giggles and smiles is that a good sign..or..am i doing something wrong?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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redzone2t

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i kiss her on the lips...when i kiss her passionately she seems like she is in a trance (she barely moves), basically she makes me do all the work..but when we gave each other a kiss goodbye (on lips) she giggled and smiled..lol...i don't know what to think..
 

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Giggling is a good thing, unless if she is laughing at you. With some women, giggling is part of her flirting behavior. Typically, if she’s giggling, she’s liking what ever it is that you are doing.
 

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Smiles are bad...duh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thissean

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depends on what type of smile. If it looked very natural then good. If it looked like her mouth was just smiling and not her face, then bad, shes faking it. If she has a tight lipped smile, then it can mean many things, shes hiding something and most likely wont tell you unless you can call it right on the spot.

anyways, my 2 cents
 
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