"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kinoed me throughout movie -> high IL?

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went with a group of friends to the cinemas..
grabbed a seat next to this HB whom I was all flirty with.

Throughout the movie we were sitting shoulder to shoulder....TOUCHING....we were getting very cosy next to each other (but were being discreet about it coz we were with a group of friends).

We also talked to each other throughout the movie..pointing out funny bits etc etc

I think she has pretty High level interest

just wanted others opinions/experiences ! :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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because HB is confusing me and playing hard to get now!???
WTF?
 

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Can't say just from that. Maybe she's just friendly, maybe she does like you, maybe she is still feeling you out. You can't assume. Just try to take things to the next level and judge her reaction to figure out how she feels.
 

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i bet that made the movie much better
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How about.....

Say "Let's talk outside for a bit"
On the premise of using the lavatory, then take things a bit further when you get outside?

Or put your hand on her leg for a nice massage?
:D
 

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Yep your going to have to push things a bit further if you want to know.

Or your going to waste to much mental energy wondering.
 

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she does like you in a certain way, but it's up to you to see how much she does. i've been in situations like this...most of the time it goes nowhere so don't hope high.
 

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thanks guyz ..looks like i'll have to grab my balls and go for it
 

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I once went to a movie w/ three friends, two female & one male. I'd had the hots for one of the girls a long time ago and did ALL the AFC crap. But a few years go by and we reverted to friends. This one particular night, she and I were sitting together and somehow we ended up holding hands. Our hands were close to her leg and eventually I started lightly touching her inner thigh w/ my thumb. I now know this to be "Kino".

Net result: we ended up fooling around after the movie. To this day I still can't remember what we saw. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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screw you bishop..
just cause you are such a fvcking experienced PIMP!

hahaha ;)
 
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