"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kinoed me throughout movie -> high IL?

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went with a group of friends to the cinemas..
grabbed a seat next to this HB whom I was all flirty with.

Throughout the movie we were sitting shoulder to shoulder....TOUCHING....we were getting very cosy next to each other (but were being discreet about it coz we were with a group of friends).

We also talked to each other throughout the movie..pointing out funny bits etc etc

I think she has pretty High level interest

just wanted others opinions/experiences ! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chicksrock

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because HB is confusing me and playing hard to get now!???
WTF?
 

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Can't say just from that. Maybe she's just friendly, maybe she does like you, maybe she is still feeling you out. You can't assume. Just try to take things to the next level and judge her reaction to figure out how she feels.
 

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i bet that made the movie much better
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How about.....

Say "Let's talk outside for a bit"
On the premise of using the lavatory, then take things a bit further when you get outside?

Or put your hand on her leg for a nice massage?
:D
 

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Yep your going to have to push things a bit further if you want to know.

Or your going to waste to much mental energy wondering.
 

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she does like you in a certain way, but it's up to you to see how much she does. i've been in situations like this...most of the time it goes nowhere so don't hope high.
 

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thanks guyz ..looks like i'll have to grab my balls and go for it
 

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I once went to a movie w/ three friends, two female & one male. I'd had the hots for one of the girls a long time ago and did ALL the AFC crap. But a few years go by and we reverted to friends. This one particular night, she and I were sitting together and somehow we ended up holding hands. Our hands were close to her leg and eventually I started lightly touching her inner thigh w/ my thumb. I now know this to be "Kino".

Net result: we ended up fooling around after the movie. To this day I still can't remember what we saw. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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screw you bishop..
just cause you are such a fvcking experienced PIMP!

hahaha ;)
 
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