"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tap known girl on shoulder (or unknown if you got a good excuse (can you give me notes))

I'll only give that example..just because I know that people will post a lot of stuff on this.
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
no no no
you arent being yourself.
BRO
are u THINKING about what u are talking about?
NO
you are simply talking

whats so hard about holdin ur arm about someones back ? u can do that non-sexually to ANYONE.
 

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You're not forgetting to do it, you're afraid to do it.

Admit that and you can progress. Read the bible more.
 
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