"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
 

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Tap known girl on shoulder (or unknown if you got a good excuse (can you give me notes))

I'll only give that example..just because I know that people will post a lot of stuff on this.
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
no no no
you arent being yourself.
BRO
are u THINKING about what u are talking about?
NO
you are simply talking

whats so hard about holdin ur arm about someones back ? u can do that non-sexually to ANYONE.
 

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You're not forgetting to do it, you're afraid to do it.

Admit that and you can progress. Read the bible more.
 
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