"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tap known girl on shoulder (or unknown if you got a good excuse (can you give me notes))

I'll only give that example..just because I know that people will post a lot of stuff on this.
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
no no no
you arent being yourself.
BRO
are u THINKING about what u are talking about?
NO
you are simply talking

whats so hard about holdin ur arm about someones back ? u can do that non-sexually to ANYONE.
 

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You're not forgetting to do it, you're afraid to do it.

Admit that and you can progress. Read the bible more.
 
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