"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tap known girl on shoulder (or unknown if you got a good excuse (can you give me notes))

I'll only give that example..just because I know that people will post a lot of stuff on this.
 

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Originally posted by TheNewGuy
I can't get kino to work. For some weird reason I always forget to do it. I'll be walking down the hall, see a HB and we'll either say hi (if she's going the opposite way) or we'll talk for a couple minutes (if she's going the same way as me).

Personally, I think just touching her arm is awkward, but I've seen what it does for people so I'm more than willing to initiate kino... if I could remember it. I've gone to the extent of writing "Kino" on my hand... but still forget to do it. It's just that with todays society it's not "normal" to go into someone elses personal space, so I've been brought up not to. It's kinda like instinct takes over.

So, any ideas on how to remember?


EDIT: This might be worded wrong, I'm not scared of doing kino... it's just that I've never done it before in my life. So when I start up a convo, I'm focusing on the convo... and not thinking in my head "OK, lightly touch her arm now" Then when the convo is over, I remember about kino.
no no no
you arent being yourself.
BRO
are u THINKING about what u are talking about?
NO
you are simply talking

whats so hard about holdin ur arm about someones back ? u can do that non-sexually to ANYONE.
 

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You're not forgetting to do it, you're afraid to do it.

Admit that and you can progress. Read the bible more.
 
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