"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kino

jboyd5

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dingo

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Kino is the best non verbal way of communicating interest and intent.... Learn it.

Seriously.... Read up and use it.....
 

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Kino physically conveys closeness. It's one of the tools of escalation. Use it to your advantage.
 
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beforeimgone

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
All the fvcking time. If I am successful with one touch then I'll escalate to another. Like a ladder

Some times I get laid instantly sometimes I look sleazy as fvck. Either way im getting clear communication. Disgusted or enchanted
 
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I go for a hug when we first meet and casually touch the small of their back when entering a doorway or passing by a crowd.

I will also occasionally pinch their arm or thigh, as if to get their attention, when we're sitting at a bar or something.

It definitely helps build a rapport.

And like @Espi said, always go for the kiss when you walk them back to their car.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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