Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kino

jboyd5

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dingo

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Kino is the best non verbal way of communicating interest and intent.... Learn it.

Seriously.... Read up and use it.....
 

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Kino physically conveys closeness. It's one of the tools of escalation. Use it to your advantage.
 
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beforeimgone

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
All the fvcking time. If I am successful with one touch then I'll escalate to another. Like a ladder

Some times I get laid instantly sometimes I look sleazy as fvck. Either way im getting clear communication. Disgusted or enchanted
 
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I go for a hug when we first meet and casually touch the small of their back when entering a doorway or passing by a crowd.

I will also occasionally pinch their arm or thigh, as if to get their attention, when we're sitting at a bar or something.

It definitely helps build a rapport.

And like @Espi said, always go for the kiss when you walk them back to their car.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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