"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kino

jboyd5

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dingo

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Kino is the best non verbal way of communicating interest and intent.... Learn it.

Seriously.... Read up and use it.....
 

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Kino physically conveys closeness. It's one of the tools of escalation. Use it to your advantage.
 
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beforeimgone

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Where is the talk about kino?

http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/the-purpose-of-touching-women-kino.htm
http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall237.htm

In my most recent experiences with kino, they have worked to my benefit whether I like the girl or not.

High fiving a girl has created an orbiter, not a bad looking one either.

While asking a girl for her number, I had my hand on her back and could feel her bra strap separating from her back as her posture opened.

How often do you djs use kino and how do you usually initiate it?
All the fvcking time. If I am successful with one touch then I'll escalate to another. Like a ladder

Some times I get laid instantly sometimes I look sleazy as fvck. Either way im getting clear communication. Disgusted or enchanted
 
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I go for a hug when we first meet and casually touch the small of their back when entering a doorway or passing by a crowd.

I will also occasionally pinch their arm or thigh, as if to get their attention, when we're sitting at a bar or something.

It definitely helps build a rapport.

And like @Espi said, always go for the kiss when you walk them back to their car.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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