"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kino w/ missing tip of finger?

donjuan87

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Should I use kino on girls, even though I have the first 3/4 of an inch of one of my index fingers missing? I don't want to gross any girls out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ_in_making

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Kino her with the other hand:)
 

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Absolutely...you can't hide it so draw attention to it purposely, and make up a few incredible/funny stories about how you lost it.
Shark attack...hooker...etc.
 

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Kino with other hand...

Any display of disability or defect is instant lowering of social value.

Monroe: Say you had lost a penis during the war, I don't think you can make up any story to compensate for that loss.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Dunno, losing a penis is pretty much suicide for a man...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Monroe

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It's contextual...that was an idiotic response macdiddy.
You can't hide a hand...So take control...preempt problems by creating an interesting story around it. You're displaying competence and control.
I'm sorry your penis was amputated.
 
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