"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kino w/ missing tip of finger?

donjuan87

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Should I use kino on girls, even though I have the first 3/4 of an inch of one of my index fingers missing? I don't want to gross any girls out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kino her with the other hand:)
 

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Absolutely...you can't hide it so draw attention to it purposely, and make up a few incredible/funny stories about how you lost it.
Shark attack...hooker...etc.
 

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Kino with other hand...

Any display of disability or defect is instant lowering of social value.

Monroe: Say you had lost a penis during the war, I don't think you can make up any story to compensate for that loss.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Dunno, losing a penis is pretty much suicide for a man...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Monroe

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It's contextual...that was an idiotic response macdiddy.
You can't hide a hand...So take control...preempt problems by creating an interesting story around it. You're displaying competence and control.
I'm sorry your penis was amputated.
 
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