"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino w/ missing tip of finger?

donjuan87

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Should I use kino on girls, even though I have the first 3/4 of an inch of one of my index fingers missing? I don't want to gross any girls out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_in_making

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Kino her with the other hand:)
 

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Absolutely...you can't hide it so draw attention to it purposely, and make up a few incredible/funny stories about how you lost it.
Shark attack...hooker...etc.
 

MacDiddy

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Kino with other hand...

Any display of disability or defect is instant lowering of social value.

Monroe: Say you had lost a penis during the war, I don't think you can make up any story to compensate for that loss.
 

DonJuanMonk

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Dunno, losing a penis is pretty much suicide for a man...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Monroe

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It's contextual...that was an idiotic response macdiddy.
You can't hide a hand...So take control...preempt problems by creating an interesting story around it. You're displaying competence and control.
I'm sorry your penis was amputated.
 
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