"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KINO right off the bat?

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juleswinns

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Just came back from the club where this girl passes me with her friends and gives me heavy eye contact and as she leaves I grab her hand and asked for her name. She's smiling and gives it to me and then I mess it up by asking her "who she was attracted to, my friend or me?" She tells me it was a stupid question but she didn't runway. She let me hold her hand that was laying softly in my grip until I just gave up. What should I have done?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Pulled in her in, said that was rhetorical question, I know who you're attracted to in a deep confident tone, and planted one.
 
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Nicholas Hill

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Exceptional answer, ConantheLibertarian. There's no way to show your confidence more than that I think - and girls love confidence.

But you would have to believe it!

Nick
 
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