"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KINO right off the bat?

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juleswinns

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Just came back from the club where this girl passes me with her friends and gives me heavy eye contact and as she leaves I grab her hand and asked for her name. She's smiling and gives it to me and then I mess it up by asking her "who she was attracted to, my friend or me?" She tells me it was a stupid question but she didn't runway. She let me hold her hand that was laying softly in my grip until I just gave up. What should I have done?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Pulled in her in, said that was rhetorical question, I know who you're attracted to in a deep confident tone, and planted one.
 
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Nicholas Hill

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Exceptional answer, ConantheLibertarian. There's no way to show your confidence more than that I think - and girls love confidence.

But you would have to believe it!

Nick
 
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