"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KINO right off the bat?

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juleswinns

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Just came back from the club where this girl passes me with her friends and gives me heavy eye contact and as she leaves I grab her hand and asked for her name. She's smiling and gives it to me and then I mess it up by asking her "who she was attracted to, my friend or me?" She tells me it was a stupid question but she didn't runway. She let me hold her hand that was laying softly in my grip until I just gave up. What should I have done?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Pulled in her in, said that was rhetorical question, I know who you're attracted to in a deep confident tone, and planted one.
 
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Nicholas Hill

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Exceptional answer, ConantheLibertarian. There's no way to show your confidence more than that I think - and girls love confidence.

But you would have to believe it!

Nick
 
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