"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KINO right off the bat?

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juleswinns

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Just came back from the club where this girl passes me with her friends and gives me heavy eye contact and as she leaves I grab her hand and asked for her name. She's smiling and gives it to me and then I mess it up by asking her "who she was attracted to, my friend or me?" She tells me it was a stupid question but she didn't runway. She let me hold her hand that was laying softly in my grip until I just gave up. What should I have done?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Pulled in her in, said that was rhetorical question, I know who you're attracted to in a deep confident tone, and planted one.
 
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Nicholas Hill

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Exceptional answer, ConantheLibertarian. There's no way to show your confidence more than that I think - and girls love confidence.

But you would have to believe it!

Nick
 
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