kingxxxman
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I walk up to this girl i've known for a while. HB5 and i do a light arm touch and she like recoils.... wtf? i do something wrong?i dont want to be labled as a creep
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Kino Rejection
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thundernuts
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Too much too soon.
starfishandcoffee
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Too much too soon, but you need to raise your standards higher than an HB5.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
yeah starfish got it. You expecting her to be easy because she wasn't that attractive, don't even try practicing on these women. I have heard this before but its still great advice, shoot for the moon, even if you miss youll still be amongst the stars.
It could also be in your delivery. If it didn't appear natural, she may have picked up on that.
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
I'm just assuming thats what it means, but don't think it about it to much, no need to complicate things.Galactus said:
Anyways, to the OP(original poster) don't waste your tim with this too average babe. If you wanna practice your game and see where it goes then you are already on the right track. Whatever you thought was your league is to low, go a few steps up and practice your game there. Its not a matter of winning or losing its a matter of playing the game and learning from it. Consider this lesson number one.
Kino, like everything, is a powerful tool. When used incorrectly it can do more harm than good.
And for the love of good read the DJ bible.
mr interesting
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bro honestly she's a HB5 lol forget her if shes not DTF
The first real cold approach of my life was with this mildly chubby chick (AB5.5), with a somewhat pretty face. We went on a couple dates, I didn't escalate until the third and it was just the gay arm around shoulder (aka claw) and I rested my head on her chest. I got MASSIVELY friend zoned by her, she told me something like she wasn't interested in a relationship right now. I spent 3 months miserable thinking I was a total failure with women because I was a 23 y/o virgin that couldn't bang some chubby chick.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.