kingxxxman
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I walk up to this girl i've known for a while. HB5 and i do a light arm touch and she like recoils.... wtf? i do something wrong?i dont want to be labled as a creep
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kino Rejection
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Too much too soon.
starfishandcoffee
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Too much too soon, but you need to raise your standards higher than an HB5.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
yeah starfish got it. You expecting her to be easy because she wasn't that attractive, don't even try practicing on these women. I have heard this before but its still great advice, shoot for the moon, even if you miss youll still be amongst the stars.
It could also be in your delivery. If it didn't appear natural, she may have picked up on that.
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
I'm just assuming thats what it means, but don't think it about it to much, no need to complicate things.Galactus said:
Anyways, to the OP(original poster) don't waste your tim with this too average babe. If you wanna practice your game and see where it goes then you are already on the right track. Whatever you thought was your league is to low, go a few steps up and practice your game there. Its not a matter of winning or losing its a matter of playing the game and learning from it. Consider this lesson number one.
Kino, like everything, is a powerful tool. When used incorrectly it can do more harm than good.
And for the love of good read the DJ bible.
mr interesting
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bro honestly she's a HB5 lol forget her if shes not DTF
The first real cold approach of my life was with this mildly chubby chick (AB5.5), with a somewhat pretty face. We went on a couple dates, I didn't escalate until the third and it was just the gay arm around shoulder (aka claw) and I rested my head on her chest. I got MASSIVELY friend zoned by her, she told me something like she wasn't interested in a relationship right now. I spent 3 months miserable thinking I was a total failure with women because I was a 23 y/o virgin that couldn't bang some chubby chick.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.