kingxxxman
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I walk up to this girl i've known for a while. HB5 and i do a light arm touch and she like recoils.... wtf? i do something wrong?i dont want to be labled as a creep
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Kino Rejection
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
Too much too soon.
starfishandcoffee
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Too much too soon, but you need to raise your standards higher than an HB5.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
You know what hurts worse than getting rejected by a hottie? Getting rejected by someone who's OK or a dog. Not only did you get rejected, but lowering your standards didn't work out in your favor.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
yeah starfish got it. You expecting her to be easy because she wasn't that attractive, don't even try practicing on these women. I have heard this before but its still great advice, shoot for the moon, even if you miss youll still be amongst the stars.
It could also be in your delivery. If it didn't appear natural, she may have picked up on that.
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
Also, you've known her for awhile, but you must not be touching her much or else she wouldn't have been surprised. You have to establish the kino early on.
And I agree, if she's a 5, what's the point?
Doesn't "HB" mean "Hot Babe"? So, how can there be such a thing as a HB5? I think it should be AB5 (Average Broad) and UB4 or lower (Ugly B1tch).
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Thundernuts
Senior Don Juan
I'm just assuming thats what it means, but don't think it about it to much, no need to complicate things.Galactus said:
Anyways, to the OP(original poster) don't waste your tim with this too average babe. If you wanna practice your game and see where it goes then you are already on the right track. Whatever you thought was your league is to low, go a few steps up and practice your game there. Its not a matter of winning or losing its a matter of playing the game and learning from it. Consider this lesson number one.
Kino, like everything, is a powerful tool. When used incorrectly it can do more harm than good.
And for the love of good read the DJ bible.
mr interesting
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bro honestly she's a HB5 lol forget her if shes not DTF
The first real cold approach of my life was with this mildly chubby chick (AB5.5), with a somewhat pretty face. We went on a couple dates, I didn't escalate until the third and it was just the gay arm around shoulder (aka claw) and I rested my head on her chest. I got MASSIVELY friend zoned by her, she told me something like she wasn't interested in a relationship right now. I spent 3 months miserable thinking I was a total failure with women because I was a 23 y/o virgin that couldn't bang some chubby chick.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.
Weeeell, 3 months after that, I got my first lay and they just started to accumulate. A couple months of last winter, I had banged two different chicks each month. And guess what? Very few of them were chubby chicks. The last one was completely banging and had the physique of a model. The one I'm gonna bang this weekend is probably an 8.
There's a possibility that the reason I got rejected by that chubby chick is that I was simply out of her league. I would NOT believe that I could bang my ex gf around this time last year, neither would I believe that I could bang half the chicks I've worked. It's a beautiful thing, man.
You will impress yourself.