"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kino-ing too much

antidonjuan

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Sometimes I kino girsl with a bunch of girls around me. And i think I have kinoed too many women, I read about kino is good but are there any side effects of kinoing too much and others see your kinoing?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BlakeW5

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You're doing too much or progressing with it too fast if it creeps her out.

Letting other girls see you kino is a type of social proof. One chick is comfortable with you touching her so why shouldn't others be? They'll assume it's just natural for you and part of your personality so they too will be more receptive to it.
 

antidonjuan

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Also, when I iniate kino to a girl, am I telling her that I want to have sex with her?
 

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Yes and no. It's not necessarily saying "I want sex" but people don't tend to touch others they're uninterested in either right? You are showing her that your comfortable touching attractive females (you'd be surprised how many guys aren't), and likewise you're getting her comfortable with your touch. Both are important if you want to progress sexually. Nothings more of a turn-off to girls than when a guy goes to make a move and she can sense his hesitancy.
 

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if you got game, there's no such thing as too much kino.

the only way they'll feel creeped out from you touching them too much is if they don't feel comfortable around you.

just be a fun, social guy, and touch away (non-creepily)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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antidonjuan

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Yea but publicly is it bad to escalate kino? Just touching them on the arm and pushing around doesn't seem to go any further. What is the next step?
 

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dude of course you're not gonna feel them up and **** in public, especially if youre still in high school (unless you're dating the girl, in which case thats fine and a fun way to get her warmed up).

touching, bumping, pushing, secret hand shakes, thumb wars, tickling, its all good man as long as you aren't being weird about it.

kino is something to be used in conjunction with socializing. if you're just touching and not talking about anything interesting or anything at ALL then, well, you're a dumbass.
 

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remember, one point of kino is that it is going to be mainly subconcious. the first act of kino should be stealthy (brush on arm/shoulder, hand on back to say hi without surprising her), and escalate slowly enough that she doesn't notice 'wow he's really touching me a lot, or touching parts i'm not comfortable with yet'.
be stealthy with your escalation, even if that means progressing slowly. unless she's a freaky chick and totally digs you ;)
 

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well, if u ask me, it first of all, depends on the girl how fast or far she can take it. secondly, when we actually speak of subtle kino, we are not talking of accidental kinos, the kino is supposed to do its job which only happens when she is open to ur touching her, u can test her if she is ready by palm readin technique, playful dancing, thumb wrestling, etc. if she si open to this and enjoying this, she is actually open to ur fvcking her. so first thing is getting the vibe and getting in her emotional personal space and then u should actually start REAL kino, before that some protective or playful kino. what is kino? kino is a way of getting two individuals close and comfortable together in a physical way, not necessarily sex. dont any of u put your arm around ur sister while walking together? thats an example of kino. though she knows u r treating her as a little brat but still that act brings u two closer. we are close to those persons physically who are in our best's and most preferred's list. thats what a kino actually does. kino means sex only when u actually combine the sexual tension with it. got me? good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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