"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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theguy351

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i need alot of kino help....any tips appreciated.

maybe like
how to initiate it?
how to increase it?
when to initiate/increase it?
signs she likes it?
showing her u like it when she does it to u?

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are many threads on this forum that discuss this but the gist of it is, just start right off after introductions. Just touch her on the arm or shoulder, and just escalate different places over a long time.

The signs she like it vary by the girl... some will kino you back, some won't. The basic rule of thumb is if she is pulling away while you are kinoing *properly*, its probably not going well for you and might be a sign to eject.

And if she does it to you, just escalate it further - the whole process is like a dance - its not something you should be *actively* responding to, but just subtly taking to the next level.

That is just a basic overview, to get the real deal hit the 'The DJ Bible' link at the bottom of every page and just go through it. Tons of great info there.
 
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i need to show her that i want her, that i like her and stuff.....give me some tips and specifics to do guys! thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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