"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kino help.....

theguy351

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i need alot of kino help....any tips appreciated.

maybe like
how to initiate it?
how to increase it?
when to initiate/increase it?
signs she likes it?
showing her u like it when she does it to u?

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There are many threads on this forum that discuss this but the gist of it is, just start right off after introductions. Just touch her on the arm or shoulder, and just escalate different places over a long time.

The signs she like it vary by the girl... some will kino you back, some won't. The basic rule of thumb is if she is pulling away while you are kinoing *properly*, its probably not going well for you and might be a sign to eject.

And if she does it to you, just escalate it further - the whole process is like a dance - its not something you should be *actively* responding to, but just subtly taking to the next level.

That is just a basic overview, to get the real deal hit the 'The DJ Bible' link at the bottom of every page and just go through it. Tons of great info there.
 

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i need to show her that i want her, that i like her and stuff.....give me some tips and specifics to do guys! thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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