"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kinda need a answer quick to this

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SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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j0504s said:
SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
 

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nroug7 said:
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
i was kinda thinking the same thing, currently i dont have a car which is a long story, I may try and borrow a friends and just grab her. but i agree with that.
 

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If all you want it sex, offer to pay
The problem is that he might not get sex, even if he did pay, or she could use gas for less important things, like seeing other guys.
If he does pay, he shouldn't give her cash, he should be with her and the one who pays for it at the gas station.
 

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I cant jepordize my morals and pay...this is bottom line.
thank you all for your speedy answers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't do it. If she's into you enough she'll find a way to come over. Btw lol @ your location.
 

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Borrow a friend's car, go get her...

... else just toss $10 her way when she gets to your place. I don't sweat over $10-20, it's the price of a date anyways, so it's a meh thing to me. If you -do- pay, make it not a big deal. Just be like, "Hey, I know you're running low on gas money, here's a bit for the trip."

I don't know if it's beta or alpha.. but it doesn't matter to me, the money's not a big enough amount to concern myself with. Going and picking her up is a better alternative, though.
 

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Ya I am finacially well off for 25 year old college grad....so money is not the issue...I'm wirking on getting my boyz car I feel it is deff. The best option
 
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