"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kinda need a answer quick to this

j0504s

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SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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j0504s said:
SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
 

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nroug7 said:
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
i was kinda thinking the same thing, currently i dont have a car which is a long story, I may try and borrow a friends and just grab her. but i agree with that.
 

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If all you want it sex, offer to pay
The problem is that he might not get sex, even if he did pay, or she could use gas for less important things, like seeing other guys.
If he does pay, he shouldn't give her cash, he should be with her and the one who pays for it at the gas station.
 

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I cant jepordize my morals and pay...this is bottom line.
thank you all for your speedy answers.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't do it. If she's into you enough she'll find a way to come over. Btw lol @ your location.
 

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Borrow a friend's car, go get her...

... else just toss $10 her way when she gets to your place. I don't sweat over $10-20, it's the price of a date anyways, so it's a meh thing to me. If you -do- pay, make it not a big deal. Just be like, "Hey, I know you're running low on gas money, here's a bit for the trip."

I don't know if it's beta or alpha.. but it doesn't matter to me, the money's not a big enough amount to concern myself with. Going and picking her up is a better alternative, though.
 

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Ya I am finacially well off for 25 year old college grad....so money is not the issue...I'm wirking on getting my boyz car I feel it is deff. The best option
 
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