"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kinda need a answer quick to this

j0504s

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SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nroug7

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j0504s said:
SO theres a chick Ive seen once before...she lives about 20 mins away or less...basicly she has limited money currently. and i told her to come over to my house which she said yes to...but she has no gas money and needs her gas money for tomm...for something she has to do...should i voluntere to give her like 10-15 bucks in gas or is this super beta i cant decide...b.c if she comes over i will get laid. this girl is also very into me texts me and calls me i rarley initiate contact
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
 

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nroug7 said:
Do you have a car yourself? I wouldn't hand any one gas money unless I was sure it was going to be spent on gas, if need be pick her up yourself or something. Don't just throw around cash. You have no idea where she is going with it.
Getting laid is good and all, but don't get blindsided by it.
i was kinda thinking the same thing, currently i dont have a car which is a long story, I may try and borrow a friends and just grab her. but i agree with that.
 

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If all you want it sex, offer to pay
The problem is that he might not get sex, even if he did pay, or she could use gas for less important things, like seeing other guys.
If he does pay, he shouldn't give her cash, he should be with her and the one who pays for it at the gas station.
 

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I cant jepordize my morals and pay...this is bottom line.
thank you all for your speedy answers.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't do it. If she's into you enough she'll find a way to come over. Btw lol @ your location.
 

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Borrow a friend's car, go get her...

... else just toss $10 her way when she gets to your place. I don't sweat over $10-20, it's the price of a date anyways, so it's a meh thing to me. If you -do- pay, make it not a big deal. Just be like, "Hey, I know you're running low on gas money, here's a bit for the trip."

I don't know if it's beta or alpha.. but it doesn't matter to me, the money's not a big enough amount to concern myself with. Going and picking her up is a better alternative, though.
 

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Ya I am finacially well off for 25 year old college grad....so money is not the issue...I'm wirking on getting my boyz car I feel it is deff. The best option
 
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