"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kinda lost.

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i have a hard time fittin in with people. i cant really talk to girls that good. i thinks its cuz im too self consious of what i might say or somethin like that. i dont even know what it is i just cant be myself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You don't need to fit in as long as you don't have too many annoying personality traits. Look at it this way, if you act like yourself, if you act like the way you want to act, you will fit in.
 
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ya but thats the thing, i cant. i just draw blanks when im with people. like ill think of things i coulda said or done like an hour after they happen.
 
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Look dude, you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself then people won't love you back. You hafta get selfish as you'll ever be. Say, "This is MY car. This is MY ride. No one can ride it better than me!" and "I'm the King" of My reality. "Get in or get the fvck out!"
 
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