"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xbills22

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i have a hard time fittin in with people. i cant really talk to girls that good. i thinks its cuz im too self consious of what i might say or somethin like that. i dont even know what it is i just cant be myself.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You don't need to fit in as long as you don't have too many annoying personality traits. Look at it this way, if you act like yourself, if you act like the way you want to act, you will fit in.
 

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ya but thats the thing, i cant. i just draw blanks when im with people. like ill think of things i coulda said or done like an hour after they happen.
 

Poonani Maker

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Look dude, you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself then people won't love you back. You hafta get selfish as you'll ever be. Say, "This is MY car. This is MY ride. No one can ride it better than me!" and "I'm the King" of My reality. "Get in or get the fvck out!"
 
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