"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kinda lost.

xbills22

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i have a hard time fittin in with people. i cant really talk to girls that good. i thinks its cuz im too self consious of what i might say or somethin like that. i dont even know what it is i just cant be myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You don't need to fit in as long as you don't have too many annoying personality traits. Look at it this way, if you act like yourself, if you act like the way you want to act, you will fit in.
 

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ya but thats the thing, i cant. i just draw blanks when im with people. like ill think of things i coulda said or done like an hour after they happen.
 

Poonani Maker

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Look dude, you don't love yourself. If you don't love yourself then people won't love you back. You hafta get selfish as you'll ever be. Say, "This is MY car. This is MY ride. No one can ride it better than me!" and "I'm the King" of My reality. "Get in or get the fvck out!"
 
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