"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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BlackDragon said:
Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
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ok i am off to bed my last post of the day.

Man its natural, its your comfort zone fuc*ing with you.
Go have fun enjoy it. Seems hard to say but push through that barrier and just go for it.

Comfort zone alert this is all it is, natural dont worry about it, just go with the flow, break that confort zone down and step over it.
 
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At least you're admitting you're a ***** lol. :yes: . Uhmm it's kompletley obvious that this biatch is jizzockin' your nuts if she want's to hang. The question is why she wants to.. shes prolly super horny, she must be ugly too. I mean because you're asking for advice on how to hangout lol. :wave: . Hah I love these smiles lol. Uhmm, go along with it mang, be sexual and just calm down. Approach her too because you are the man right? I'm not sure. Be sexual and ask her sexual questions and that you really like her and ****.
 
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My advice to you is to start drinking heavily.
 
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