"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlackDragon

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Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BlackDragon said:
Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
ok i am off to bed my last post of the day.

Man its natural, its your comfort zone fuc*ing with you.
Go have fun enjoy it. Seems hard to say but push through that barrier and just go for it.

Comfort zone alert this is all it is, natural dont worry about it, just go with the flow, break that confort zone down and step over it.
 
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At least you're admitting you're a ***** lol. :yes: . Uhmm it's kompletley obvious that this biatch is jizzockin' your nuts if she want's to hang. The question is why she wants to.. shes prolly super horny, she must be ugly too. I mean because you're asking for advice on how to hangout lol. :wave: . Hah I love these smiles lol. Uhmm, go along with it mang, be sexual and just calm down. Approach her too because you are the man right? I'm not sure. Be sexual and ask her sexual questions and that you really like her and ****.
 

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My advice to you is to start drinking heavily.
 
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