Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BlackDragon said:
Ok tomorrow im suppose to meet with this chick i meet on myspace. We been talking for a while by email and phone. Im suppose to meet her at her friends house and chill over there then go to the club. I've already been invited to stay the night over there too, so I'll be able to drink. Anyway, im freaking nervous as hell. I going to be at a city im not from with this chick and her friend. Im not much of a social person. Im thinking about inviting a friend to come but i dont know if that'll be a good ideal. Any kind of advise would be helpful.
ok i am off to bed my last post of the day.

Man its natural, its your comfort zone fuc*ing with you.
Go have fun enjoy it. Seems hard to say but push through that barrier and just go for it.

Comfort zone alert this is all it is, natural dont worry about it, just go with the flow, break that confort zone down and step over it.
 
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At least you're admitting you're a ***** lol. :yes: . Uhmm it's kompletley obvious that this biatch is jizzockin' your nuts if she want's to hang. The question is why she wants to.. shes prolly super horny, she must be ugly too. I mean because you're asking for advice on how to hangout lol. :wave: . Hah I love these smiles lol. Uhmm, go along with it mang, be sexual and just calm down. Approach her too because you are the man right? I'm not sure. Be sexual and ask her sexual questions and that you really like her and ****.
 

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My advice to you is to start drinking heavily.
 
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