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Proximity can make a woman seem more attractive and important in your life than she actually is. The more you communicate and spend time around a woman you like, the more attached you will become. If you can find out what the deal is quickly by making a move, then you can easily cut them off if they're not on the same page without feeling a thing. This not only saves you time and prevents women from taking advantage, but it also saves you a lot of pain and wasted emotional investment.Yep finally seeing this for what it is now ... I wish I’d opened my eyes earlier lol
All that time wasted ...
Worst thing is looks wise she’s a 6/10 ... I think I liked her more because of all the stuff we did together etc ...
I’m just gonna focus on me again now ... gym, tanning, nice clothes etc ... and spin plates
She keeps reaching out to me like 30 mins ago she texted me saying ‘ do you think you’ll be free one day this week then or are you working?’
I replied saying not too sure just yet, I’m really busy at the moment will keep you updated.
Her reply was ‘No worries’
I think I’m done with that now ... ain’t going anywhere ... she just wants me to stroke her ego ... she has other fu** boys for that.
I think she’s finally knows I’m getting the message and am not interested in friendship.
Oh man, this girl is a huge attention whoare and she's totally leading you on.Update
So last Friday this happened
So she texted me seeing if I wanted to go on a walk as it was sunny ... I agreed and picked her up ... we went to a local spot where’s there’s a waterfall and a small hike ... to cut a long story short we got to the waterfall ... and then she was like will you take a picture of me with my bum out lol ... so I wasn’t yeah sure ... anyways she’s stood there in thongs are bra ... she looks smoking, then she says your turn ha ha ... so we have some fun taking pics etc ... on the way back we chill on this huge rock .. and we’re talking and laughing about what we just did .. then she asks if ive been seeing anyone etc .. she starts to tell me that she’s been talking to abguy who’s married and he keeps sending her dirty messages begging for sex .. but she says that she said no he’s a creep (don’t by it)
I just kind of shrug it off ... then she goes to say next time we will have to go naked ha ha .. I was like cool
Anyways fast forward an hour .. I drop her off and head home ... I message her later to forward me those booty pics I took of her ... she obliged .. but about 20 mins later she messaged me saying why do you want my pics ... I tried to avoid the question with humour ... but she came back to it again lol ... she thought they was for the wank bank ha ha ... she kept asking sending those little monkey emojis... so I just said to her .. I wanted the pics because ‘I like you and you look good’
She replied with this text ‘ and now I don’t know what to make of it ‘ she was deffo flirting
Her reply ‘ Aww thank you, I don’t feel like I do atm but I’ll get there x’
Not sure what to make of that tbh ... but at least she knows now
Come Saturday we go out for drinks again ... this tune I make my move we kiss ... she blushes etc ...
But since Saturday she says she’s been really busy ... she’s still messaging me daily.
She texted me yesterday saying she’s sorry she’s been busy and let’s do something tomorrow ... I agree ... I texted her half hour ago seeing if we’re still on today ... seems like she’s getting a little flakey ...
This is where I’m currently at
Look at it from this point of view - is she cooperating?Update
So last Friday this happened
So she texted me seeing if I wanted to go on a walk as it was sunny ... I agreed and picked her up ... we went to a local spot where’s there’s a waterfall and a small hike ... to cut a long story short we got to the waterfall ... and then she was like will you take a picture of me with my bum out lol ... so I wasn’t yeah sure ... anyways she’s stood there in thongs are bra ... she looks smoking, then she says your turn ha ha ... so we have some fun taking pics etc ... on the way back we chill on this huge rock .. and we’re talking and laughing about what we just did .. then she asks if ive been seeing anyone etc .. she starts to tell me that she’s been talking to abguy who’s married and he keeps sending her dirty messages begging for sex .. but she says that she said no he’s a creep (don’t by it)
I just kind of shrug it off ... then she goes to say next time we will have to go naked ha ha .. I was like cool
Anyways fast forward an hour .. I drop her off and head home ... I message her later to forward me those booty pics I took of her ... she obliged .. but about 20 mins later she messaged me saying why do you want my pics ... I tried to avoid the question with humour ... but she came back to it again lol ... she thought they was for the wank bank ha ha ... she kept asking sending those little monkey emojis... so I just said to her .. I wanted the pics because ‘I like you and you look good’
She replied with this text ‘ and now I don’t know what to make of it ‘ she was deffo flirting
Her reply ‘ Aww thank you, I don’t feel like I do atm but I’ll get there x’
Not sure what to make of that tbh ... but at least she knows now
Come Saturday we go out for drinks again ... this tune I make my move we kiss ... she blushes etc ...
But since Saturday she says she’s been really busy ... she’s still messaging me daily.
She texted me yesterday saying she’s sorry she’s been busy and let’s do something tomorrow ... I agree ... I texted her half hour ago seeing if we’re still on today ... seems like she’s getting a little flakey ...
This is where I’m currently at
Update
So last Friday this happened
So she texted me seeing if I wanted to go on a walk as it was sunny ... I agreed and picked her up ... we went to a local spot where’s there’s a waterfall and a small hike ... to cut a long story short we got to the waterfall ... and then she was like will you take a picture of me with my bum out lol ... so I wasn’t yeah sure ... anyways she’s stood there in thongs are bra ... she looks smoking, then she says your turn ha ha ... so we have some fun taking pics etc ... on the way back we chill on this huge rock .. and we’re talking and laughing about what we just did .. then she asks if ive been seeing anyone etc .. she starts to tell me that she’s been talking to abguy who’s married and he keeps sending her dirty messages begging for sex .. but she says that she said no he’s a creep (don’t by it)
I just kind of shrug it off ... then she goes to say next time we will have to go naked ha ha .. I was like cool
Anyways fast forward an hour .. I drop her off and head home ... I message her later to forward me those booty pics I took of her ... she obliged .. but about 20 mins later she messaged me saying why do you want my pics ... I tried to avoid the question with humour ... but she came back to it again lol ... she thought they was for the wank bank ha ha ... she kept asking sending those little monkey emojis... so I just said to her .. I wanted the pics because ‘I like you and you look good’
She replied with this text ‘ and now I don’t know what to make of it ‘ she was deffo flirting
Her reply ‘ Aww thank you, I don’t feel like I do atm but I’ll get there x’
Not sure what to make of that tbh ... but at least she knows now
Come Saturday we go out for drinks again ... this tune I make my move we kiss ... she blushes etc ...
But since Saturday she says she’s been really busy ... she’s still messaging me daily.
She texted me yesterday saying she’s sorry she’s been busy and let’s do something tomorrow ... I agree ... I texted her half hour ago seeing if we’re still on today ... seems like she’s getting a little flakey ...
This is where I’m currently at