"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Killing desperation

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Ok, I know there have been many a topic on this subject but to be honest I am too lazy to try to search for it.

With that admission out of the way, is there an effective way to kill the desperation factor? For various reasons which I wont get into I seem to have an aura of extreme desperation. It has been so bad that I have turned off girls who were at first interested in me

It seems to me that the only way to really kill this desperation is to get laid. The funny part is that unless I get it under control, I won't have rats ass chance of getting laid. Hence the catch-22 situation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To summarize: Realize you are the prize, and get a life outside of women.
 
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read the bible

also Pooks post is in there known as Kill that Desparation:rolleyes:

Read it and learn from it

Go to the road of the Champions
 
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oh my god, if he added a "the" he would have got pooks post.:rolleyes:

People are getting lazier and lazier i swear
 
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well mod kick some a$$es into shape already:cool: :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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