"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Killing desperation

Doc73

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Ok, I know there have been many a topic on this subject but to be honest I am too lazy to try to search for it.

With that admission out of the way, is there an effective way to kill the desperation factor? For various reasons which I wont get into I seem to have an aura of extreme desperation. It has been so bad that I have turned off girls who were at first interested in me

It seems to me that the only way to really kill this desperation is to get laid. The funny part is that unless I get it under control, I won't have rats ass chance of getting laid. Hence the catch-22 situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MrCode

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To summarize: Realize you are the prize, and get a life outside of women.
 

comic_relief

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read the bible

also Pooks post is in there known as Kill that Desparation:rolleyes:

Read it and learn from it

Go to the road of the Champions
 

Vincent

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oh my god, if he added a "the" he would have got pooks post.:rolleyes:

People are getting lazier and lazier i swear
 

comic_relief

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well mod kick some a$$es into shape already:cool: :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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