"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Killing desperation

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Ok, I know there have been many a topic on this subject but to be honest I am too lazy to try to search for it.

With that admission out of the way, is there an effective way to kill the desperation factor? For various reasons which I wont get into I seem to have an aura of extreme desperation. It has been so bad that I have turned off girls who were at first interested in me

It seems to me that the only way to really kill this desperation is to get laid. The funny part is that unless I get it under control, I won't have rats ass chance of getting laid. Hence the catch-22 situation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To summarize: Realize you are the prize, and get a life outside of women.
 
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read the bible

also Pooks post is in there known as Kill that Desparation:rolleyes:

Read it and learn from it

Go to the road of the Champions
 
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oh my god, if he added a "the" he would have got pooks post.:rolleyes:

People are getting lazier and lazier i swear
 
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well mod kick some a$$es into shape already:cool: :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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