Killer question

[Hyper2010]

Met a POF girl, who is a HB 8 on her best day, dmpkin body, freak in bed..even got an okayish personality

But has some baggage;

8 year old son having therapy, dad died 5 years ago
Having therapy herself over issues with her ex dying
Hasn't worked in 5 years
Lives on benefits
Caught her telling me a BIG lie recently
Epilepsy - she can never drive
Random bouts of horrific exzma
2 domineering older sisters who interviene
No savings/goals/ambitions
Tons of exes, ex fbs lurking in background etc

Should I consider a relationship on the grounds of her looks? Or is this suicide?

 

[LorenzoVonM]

No red flags that I can see. Put a ring on that shvt before someone else beats you to the punch.

 

[pinkfl]

I don't like to say that anyone is undateable. But I don't know enough about you to determine if you're right for each other, relationshipwise.

If her ex died and was the father of her child, that sucks. Were they married though? Or just shacking up?

In any case, I just feel really bad for this girl. She really needs a good opportunity in life and I don't think she's going to get it.

 

[Hyper2010]

Yeah partly I feel sorry for her. Previously she had a ring of 5 or 6 guys on of as FBs who ere regularly smashing her, as she said she wanted to feel loved and respected

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

No red flags that I can see. Put a ring on that shvt before someone else beats you to the punch.

Ha!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Yeah partly I feel sorry for her. Previously she had a ring of 5 or 6 guys on of as FBs who ere regularly smashing her, as she said she wanted to feel loved and respected

Law 10 from the great book 48 Laws of Power:

Infection: Avoid the unhappy & unlucky:

"You can die from someone else's misery - emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may feel you are helping the drowning man but you are only precipitating your own disaster. The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy & fortunate instead."


Its one thing to get involved with a girl who you were unaware that has a boat load of issues. But to walk in to a situation like that is like swimming with sharks and being surprised at the outcome.

Work on yourself. Being a DJ is about bettering yourself, having options and most importantly realizing you cannot save anyone.











PIMP

 

[5string]

Cluster B alert bigtime.

 

[VladPatton]

Red flags, bells, whistles, air horns, bull horns, loudspeakers, sirens, flashing strobes, a blimp, and your Momma pleading to you saying "Sonny, don't do it!"

 

[foreverAFC]

jesus christ i cant believe what some guys are willing to put up with for some sex

 

[Skyline]

100% suicide.

 

[BeDJ]

Does anyone else realize that Hyper2010 is a troll?

 

[Sneevox]

jesus christ i cant believe what some guys are willing to put up with for some sex

Right?

I mean... I can understand listening to a girl talk about one of her exes for a little bit while you drink her alcohol and then fvck her half an hour later... but that's probably the farthest I'll go.