She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
beercan said:Is this some thinG that i NEED TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT.![]()
sorry to bring this up but I heard it metioned a few times and was staring to get worried
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
truthfully, unless you're drinking really ****ty grain liquor (cheap vodka, etc.), you should be able to ward off such effects with proper hydration before hitting the booze and again before hitting the sack. obviously, the bigger the bender, the harder this is, not to mention less probable.....ryannath said:A little off topic, but I noticed that when I used to drink alcohol, I would get a headache that really wasn't worth the drinking, so one night I drank an energy drink and some gatorade before I started drinking alcohol, and I had no headache at all. I felt normal except for the staggering. It doesn't take the effects from the alcohol, just the headache for me.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's a myth. Drink a gallon a day, eat quality food, exercise. You'll be ok.beercan said:Is this some thinG that i NEED TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT.![]()
sorry to bring this up but I heard it metioned a few times and was staring to get worried
You mean drinks a lot of water can help us to prevent.Throttle said:drink appx. a gallon of water per day (a bit more if it's hot and/or you're very active).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
smith02 said:You mean drinks a lot of water can help us to prevent.
Is it U.K. or U.S. gallon????
If I take some honey with lemon water is it good for health and kidney???
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You mean the lemonade diet as a detox method. It works, but if you exercise, it's not the best thing to do.LoneSilver said:I believe if I am not mistaken lemon water alone cleanses your liver but make sure you use the juice from a lemon or buy the juice and not from concentrate a big difference.
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