I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
beercan said:Is this some thinG that i NEED TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT.![]()
sorry to bring this up but I heard it metioned a few times and was staring to get worried
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
truthfully, unless you're drinking really ****ty grain liquor (cheap vodka, etc.), you should be able to ward off such effects with proper hydration before hitting the booze and again before hitting the sack. obviously, the bigger the bender, the harder this is, not to mention less probable.....ryannath said:A little off topic, but I noticed that when I used to drink alcohol, I would get a headache that really wasn't worth the drinking, so one night I drank an energy drink and some gatorade before I started drinking alcohol, and I had no headache at all. I felt normal except for the staggering. It doesn't take the effects from the alcohol, just the headache for me.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's a myth. Drink a gallon a day, eat quality food, exercise. You'll be ok.beercan said:Is this some thinG that i NEED TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT.![]()
sorry to bring this up but I heard it metioned a few times and was staring to get worried
You mean drinks a lot of water can help us to prevent.Throttle said:drink appx. a gallon of water per day (a bit more if it's hot and/or you're very active).
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
smith02 said:You mean drinks a lot of water can help us to prevent.
Is it U.K. or U.S. gallon????
If I take some honey with lemon water is it good for health and kidney???
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You mean the lemonade diet as a detox method. It works, but if you exercise, it's not the best thing to do.LoneSilver said:I believe if I am not mistaken lemon water alone cleanses your liver but make sure you use the juice from a lemon or buy the juice and not from concentrate a big difference.
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