"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kicked in the balls...

DanelMadr

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I went out with a girl. She was into me I suppose. I think she just wanted to taste (other)man before she marries her long time(first) boyfriend.

I wasn't willing to be human dildo, so we were just dating. I made no attempt to bed her or grab her boobs, basically because she wasn't on her best behaviour. She didn't flake but she tried several times to throw me off balance by mentioning her bf, some rude remarks, you can name it. I was in best mental shape and didn't give a sh*t about it. Mainly because I started to loose interest in her I suppose, because of this sh*t.

She wasn't rude (testing) all the time but sometimes she went on streak. And it all begin to look like a contest of power struggle.

And one day when the date was about to end, she had her testing streak, shooting one comment after another and I just shot down any comment she made and turning it on her.....and suddenly out of frustration or what she tried to knee my balls in a f*cking public place. I am well trained I suppose, because I diverted the attack in time by raising my knee and kicking her on thigh. Not much but enough to divert it....she could walk after that.

Well, if I didn't do it she would kick me in the balls. WTF man? Some horny b*tch. If she can't have them, beat them? Thats some logic.:D

Well, protect your balls, gentlemen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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