"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kicked in the balls...

DanelMadr

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I went out with a girl. She was into me I suppose. I think she just wanted to taste (other)man before she marries her long time(first) boyfriend.

I wasn't willing to be human dildo, so we were just dating. I made no attempt to bed her or grab her boobs, basically because she wasn't on her best behaviour. She didn't flake but she tried several times to throw me off balance by mentioning her bf, some rude remarks, you can name it. I was in best mental shape and didn't give a sh*t about it. Mainly because I started to loose interest in her I suppose, because of this sh*t.

She wasn't rude (testing) all the time but sometimes she went on streak. And it all begin to look like a contest of power struggle.

And one day when the date was about to end, she had her testing streak, shooting one comment after another and I just shot down any comment she made and turning it on her.....and suddenly out of frustration or what she tried to knee my balls in a f*cking public place. I am well trained I suppose, because I diverted the attack in time by raising my knee and kicking her on thigh. Not much but enough to divert it....she could walk after that.

Well, if I didn't do it she would kick me in the balls. WTF man? Some horny b*tch. If she can't have them, beat them? Thats some logic.:D

Well, protect your balls, gentlemen.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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